The most important relationship we ever have is with our own self. Hard-won experience has shown that to the degree that we are out of touch with our self is the degree that we are out of touch with our relationships with others. Paradoxically, it often isn't until we run into trouble in our attempts to have meaningful relationships with others that we make this discovery.

Therefore, relationships reveal us and expose us. Are you willing to look at what is uncovered? Are you willing to put aside your expectations of what you think your partner should be and what your relationship should deliver? Are you willing to allow your partner to be his or herself and discover who you are in the process? Are you willing to let go of the conflict and work with what reality has to actually offer you?

Perhaps there is something wonderful and vitally alive waiting for us within these confusing dynamics we call a relationship if we are prepared to venture beyond the surface and the childish fantasies. Perhaps the differences between us aren't such a problem after all.

This booklet offers insights into the depths of human nature as well as practical solutions. It is designed to be a comprehensive guide for turning conflict into harmonious relationships.